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  • Hannah explains how she used sleep training methods with baby Ben
  • What is meant by baby or toddler sleep training and will it help your little one wake less at night?
  • The historical context in which sleep training arose
  • Sleep training often makes baby or toddler sleep worse
  • Why watching for tired signs can make sleep worse when you have a baby or toddler
  • Our babies and toddlers don't resist or fight sleep, though you might hear this said
  • Do toddlers become overtired and overstimulated?
  • A video about sleep training and one of the earliest systematic reviews showing it doesn't decrease frequency of night waking

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  • CH 5: Does sleep training (sometimes called gentle or responsive settling) help?

Hannah explains how she used sleep training methods with baby Ben

Dr Pamela Douglas28th of Dec 20239th of Dec 2025

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In the video below, Hannah doesn't necessarily know that she's been using sleep training techniques, because the advice she's received about baby Ben's sleep has been given to her as if it is the best, most evidence-based way. These days, sleep coaches might refer to their programs as responsive settling or gentle settling or holistic sleep approaches, but when you look closely, they are still built from sleep training principles, which are a form of first wave behavioural therapy. You can find out about sleep training and the problems with labelling sleep training as responsive here.

When you listen to Hannah, you'll find that the way she's been trying to deal with Ben's sleep comes from the sleep training approaches.

Sometimes the names given to sleep training methods are confusing. For example, sleep training approaches are often described as being gentle, or as a kind of responsive settling. Because the neuroscience clearly shows that responsive care is best for your baby's development, many health professionals and sleep coaches are now using methods which they themselves genuinely believe are different to sleep training. But sleep training methods inevitably advise you to ignore or deliberately delay responses to your little one's communications or cues.

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This article is part of a collection inside The Possums Sleep Program called Deeper Dive, which explores the more complex scientific, historical and social contexts in which families and their babies or toddlers live and sleep. You don't need to read Deeper Dive articles to be helped by The Possums Sleep Program.

What is sleep training?

Sleep training our babies or toddlers isn't bad. But it is, in my view, outdated. Sleep training can make life with your baby or toddler much harder than it needs to be.

Many sleep programs now don't identify as sleep training, but continue to offer selected elements of it, at the same time as the sleep approach is promoted…

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